by
Roger Smalling, D.Min
A Colombian believer starting a Reformed church wrote
asking,
I would like your counsel on the role of women in the church. We believe they may not preach, have authority over men nor govern in the church. But we have doubts about some of the applications of this.
One of our members is a graduate in psychology. She has offered to give talks in the church on psychology from a biblical perspective. We are asking ourselves if she ought to give conferences only to women or would it be appropriate to include the church as a whole.
Dear Sergio,
Evidently God is granting you opportunity to define the
working parameters of your church. This indicates he considers your efforts
worthy of attention and that your work has a future.
Understanding the difference between a law and a principle is at
the core of this question. Laws are absolute. Violating a law is a
transgression. A principle, however, is a general guide to ordinary practice.
Violating a principle is not necessarily a transgression and may have exceptions.
A key question: Will this woman be performing a function
that is the domain of an ordained minister?
Throughout the Bible, certain functions appear as the
proper domain of the ordained minister only:
·
The proclamation of
the Word of God to the congregation in worship.
·
The administration of
the sacraments.
These areas denote spiritual authority for leadership over
God’s people through preaching and teaching.
Both Old Testament priests and New Testament ministers
possess these roles as a result of their calling. In theology, it is termed the
priestly functions. These normally
take place in formal public worship.
When considering the proposed lectures on psychology by this lady, ask
yourself: Is the meeting called at a time and place where the congregation is
normally gathered for public worship? Is the intent of the meeting to expound
the Word of God to the congregation?
Based on the information you gave me, the purpose of the
meeting is not public worship. The topic is psychology, not the Bible. It is a
lecture, not a sermon. None of her conference has to do with the priestly functions so I see no violation
of biblical principles here.
As a church leader, it is your responsibility to see that
all members have ample opportunity to express their gifts. You acknowledge this
or you would not be asking the question. Women may possess any spiritual gift,
including that of teaching. She may not, however, duplicate or replace the
functions of an ordained minister in administering the Word of God and the
sacraments to the congregation.
Some Reformed churches have sinned against women by not
allowing them ample expression of their gifts. This is an error at least as
serious as ordaining them. If I had to make a choice, I would rather a woman
inadvertently trespass biblical limitations than deprive her of her gifts.
Practicing a privilege we do not merit seems more consistent with grace than
taking away a blessing that is ours.
Therefore, if you must risk a mistake, err on the side of
liberty rather than law. The chances of pleasing God are better. That being
said, it is surprisingly easy to avoid such risks.
Reformed churches do this by having a woman use a lectern
in another location than the pulpit. This is not because the pulpit is sacred.
No piece of furniture, in this dispensation, is sacred. However, in the minds
of some, the pulpit represents the place of spiritual authority and leadership
through the preaching of the Word.
Other ways to avoid confusion is to have an elder preside
over the meetings. You can announce the meetings as, “A lecture on Christian
Psychology by Dr. Sanchez, with Elder Rodriquez presiding.” This makes it clear
you have no intention of confusing the difference between the role of a minster
and the role of a lady in the church expressing her gifts and knowledge.
Beware of creating unnecessary rules and restrictions. It
would be ludicrous to start a church dedicated to God’s grace and then bind it
by unnecessary rules. The thing that laws produce most, is more laws. Paul says
it best...
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Gal 5:1
In his bonds of freedom,
Roger Smalling
Smalling's
books and essays are available at www.smallings.com